Thursday, May 16, 2013

on my fangirl moment.

dressed up as angela with a stapler in jello/with a gift from my roommate with a favorite quote from the office on it
well, the day has finally come. the day i dreaded since the summer of 2005 when i first fell in love with the office. i watched the first season that summer, only 5 or 6 episodes, and from the moment season two debuted it was true love. and for the next two years, every thursday, without fail, my group of friends from college and i would get together and watch it. we laughed our butts off, fell in love with jim and pam and wished michael would find love and maybe tone down the awkwardness. creed, though, we thought was perfect. every thursday we did this...and then headed out to the bars together. it's probably one of my most cherished and appreciated memories i made with those friends. when i got a text from my college roommate last night, where we both admitted to the fact that the last few episodes have been a mixture of lots of laughter and lots of tears, it brought me back to those thursday nights. the office holds a special, sentimental little place in my heart because of that but, don't get me wrong - i'd still think it was one of the best shows that's ever been on television. almost everyone has a show, or a movie, or a play, that is implicitly theirs. and when someone says they don't like the office, or they don't get the humor, i simply nod and smile and promptly remove myself from the situation. there is no reasoning with a super fan like me - and no one can say anything denigrating about the office to me. it just won't fly.
and why - why do i love this show so much? as the years have gone by, some people, who say they're "fans", have ceased watching the show. it's not any good since steve carrell left. or it's not funny anymore. or it's hit and miss, they say. and, to me, those people never really got what the office was about in the first place. sure, episodes stumbled here and there. yes, the writers have made andy's character change personalities a few too many times. but at the end of the day, the office was a love story. many people's love stories - dwight and angela, michael's search for love, andy's search for love, and, of course, above all of these - jim and pam. and it was here where the office excelled. many episodes i have laughed until my sides hurt, or repeated certain lines for months on end, sure - but these episodes had just as many moments where my heart skipped a beat, or i held my breath in anticipation, or i shed a few tears as two people finally found love. all of which, of course, was made possible by an amazing cast - i'm always dumbfounded that the actors who play jim and pam aren't actually together in real life. so many moments from the show about these two still give me the same reaction - i tear up when jim finally kisses her, i can't stand pam when she's too afraid to say something to jim when he's dating karen, the reaction they have on camera, with no sound and no lines, that lets you know they just found out Pam is pregnant never ceases to amaze me, i still cry at their wedding when jim says his plan was to marry her a long time ago after they do an impromptu ceremony on a boat, and when i watch last week's episode again i will still shake my head in amazement when i see jim finally give pam that teapot note.
(and yes, i am currently crying after typing that all out).
yeah, sure - the office is a comedy. but it's really just one big, grand love story - the kind of love story we all can relate to. we have all been at a job, or in a class, and pined away for someone. along with the weird co-workers, the office was just so damn relatable at the end of the day. comedy, love story, drama - it was, at the end of the day, a story about life. and what could be more compelling than that?
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"I bought those boat tickets the day I saw that YouTube video. I knew we'd need a backup plan. The boat was actually Plan C, the church was Plan B, and Plan A was marrying her a long, long time ago. Pretty much the day I met her." -- jim

13 comments:

  1. Not even kidding, I JUST watched that episode where they got married last night. Tears! I mean. And when Jim found out she was pregnant! Oooooh, so good. So far, as you know, I'm loving this show, but I have to admit I'm dreading the Michael-less seasons. His character is so hilarious and Carrell plays it perfectly. I've heard mixed reviews about what to look forward to, but I'm definitely going to watch with an open mind.

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    1. trust me, those people are wrong. yes the show stumbles a bit to find it's voice but there's just still so much wonderful things going on in the episodes - and this last season was pretty damn good.

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  2. i sooooo feel you. i can't watch the pam+jim wedding two parter without ugly-crying! with you on that one, sister.

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  3. Wow I loved this. I did the same thing with my college friends - the best! I have continued to watch the seasons after Michael Scott left. I guess that makes me a "true fan." The show definitely changed but it's still so good, and your words put it perfectly - it's ultimately a love story. A series of ordinary love stories that we all can relate to. I am getting really nostalgic about the last episode tonight!

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    1. you are a true fan! i knew there was something i liked about you ;)

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  4. I love this!! When I was in college, it was Friends. We would all gather together and watch every week. It was that same kind of special:)

    I have watched The Office since the beginning, and it is so bittersweet for me that it is over. I am excited to see what happens tonight. I have to admit that after the beet farm funeral episode (which makes me sad that NBC didn't pick up the spin-off)I was singing that Sons and Daughters song for weeks. The casino night episode when Jim tells Pam he loves her still gives me chills, and I still cry at their wedding on the boat. Michael's antics still make me cringe and I always wish Nelly was around a few seasons longer.

    I am happy to see Dwight and Angela get hitched. They are as perfect together as Jim and Pam.

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    1. agreed! was so happy that couple finally got their moment. the finale was perfection.

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  5. That quote is perfection.

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  6. MAN, I love your passion. Gettin' after it.

    I won't say too much here because I've not watched it for the past several years (eeep!), but I will say this:

    "I wake up every morning in a bed that's too small, drive my daughter to a school that's too expensive, and then I go to work to a job for which I get paid too little, but on Pretzel Day? Well, I like pretzel day."

    Your enthusiasm makes me want to watch it all over again on Netflix, and keep going until the very end. And I will. I definitely will.

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    1. lol - yes, pretzel day! and catch up catch up - so many gems over the past few seasons, no matter what the critics say. it's really a show that's got a lot of heart.

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  7. Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy, both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.

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    1. lol - so good! and let's not forget all of creed's quotes...

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